Aside from being a fun and lucrative career, camming is also a great way to meet a lot of men. And you’ve probably been offered by quite a few to be their sugar baby, which got you considering branching out into this business.
But before you start sugaring, there are many things you need to consider, such as setting up an impressive profile and finding potential daddies. You also need to get past the first meeting without crashing and burning. After all, the first meeting is always the hardest. But, most importantly, you need to learn how to maintain your privacy and look out for yourself.
Here’s everything you need to know on how to become a sugar baby..
1. Create a Killer Sugar Baby Profile
Your sugar baby profile is your ticket to sugaring success. Make it stand out. You have to learn to create one that attracts—and not repels—prospective sugar daddies.
However, do be careful about your privacy. Some women ask themselves, “Should I use my real name on a sugar baby site?” That’s a big no-no. Never disclose any information that may be traced back to you. This is for your own safety.
Here are other things to keep in mind when setting up a sugar baby profile:
- Never disclose any personal information.
- Attach a photo on your profile but don’t show your face.
- Do not put nude photos in your profile.
- Describe who you are and what you are looking for.
- Be honest.
2. Make Yourself Attractive
Your looks are not the only thing your sugar daddy likes about you. But it’s one of the primary reasons why he chose you among other sugar babies out there.
So make an effort to look your best at all times, especially when you’re out with him. You’ll also likely have a lot of free time while in such a relationship. Use this time to get yourself some nice clothes and makeup.
You can also take this time to keep your body in shape. Whether you go to the gym or workout at home, invest in your body because it’s the best asset you have in this business.
3. Respect Yourself
Yes, you are a sugar baby, and you’re being paid for your companionship. But that doesn’t give anyone the right to step on you like you’re some dirty rug.
Don’t let anyone bully you into doing something that you’ll regret later. Stand up for yourself. Show them that you respect yourself, and so should they—but don’t be arrogant.
4. It Pays to Be Nice
It may sound counterintuitive to give your daddy a gift. You are, after all, in a relationship where you should be the one at the receiving end of gifts. Your daddy can probably buy himself anything he wants.
But that’s not the point. Your daddy, like all human beings, likes getting presents too. So, if you know something that he likes that’s not overly expensive, you can surprise him with gifts now and then.
5. Never Be Late on Your Dates
One of the most important tips on being a sugar baby is to never make your sugar daddy wait. Being fashionably late is not cute to these highly successful men. Remember, they are professionals who value punctuality.
These people are also busy, but they are allocating some of their time to you. If you can’t respect their time, they’ll think you don’t respect them and that you’re just probably playing around. So if your date is at 6:30 pm, be there at 6:30 pm.
6. Be Appreciative
A sugar baby-sugar daddy relationship is a business relationship. You’re getting paid for your services. But that doesn’t mean you should take anything for granted. You shouldn’t also feel entitled or think that your daddy owes you something.
Always be grateful and show your appreciation for whatever he gives you. Don’t be petty if it’s not something you like or as expensive as you want it to be. Always say “Thank you” with a smile. You can also kiss and hug him once in a while for his generosity.
7. Learn to Protect Yourself
Many women jumping into sugaring often forget one important thing: sugar baby safety. As a sugar baby, you’ll meet different kinds of men—and not all of them will be genuinely nice people.
Never meet anyone in private, especially at your first meeting. If they refuse in a public place, that’s a big red flag.
And don’t let them know where you live. Arrange your own transportation to and from the meeting place. As an added safety precaution, you should also let someone you trust know who you are meeting and where you are going.
8. Keep Things Hush-Hush
One of the most important things you need to learn as a sugar baby is to always be discreet, especially when you’re dating a married sugar daddy. If their wife finds out about you, you can kiss you sugar-spree days goodbye.
If you’re going to exchange steamy messages with a married sugar daddy, both of you better make sure his wife won’t get hold of his phone.
9. Avoid the ‘Newbie Trap’
The amount of your ‘allowance’ is not the only thing you and your sugar daddy should agree on. Both of you should also agree on how you are going to receive the funds.
For your own safety, we do not recommend bank transfers. Never share your personal banking information to anyone to avoid getting scammed.
So, what is the safest way to get money from a sugar daddy?
Safe options you can use to receive funds include:
- Money order
- In-person payments
- Prepaid gift cards
10. Relax and Have Fun
Even though you’re being paid, sugar baby dating relationships are more complicated than regular business transactions. Of course, pleasing your daddy is important, but you don’t have to try so hard that you’re no longer enjoying the experience.
Most sugar daddies will enjoy themselves more if they see that you are also having fun. You enjoying yourself is giving him what they want. It’s a win-win. So, sit back and enjoy the ride.
Of course, that’s easier said than done, especially on your first date. If you’re having a hard time relaxing, just remember these tips, and you’ll do fine.